"The person who betrayed you is sunning themselves on a beach in Hawaii and you're knotted up in hatred. Who is suffering?"

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The critical thing about the design process is to identify your scarcest resource. Despite what you may think, that very often is not money. For example, in a NASA moon shot, money is abundant but lightness is scarce; every ounce of weight requires tons of material below. On the design of a beach vacation home, the limitation may be your ocean-front footage. You have to make sure your whole team understands what scarce resource you're optimizing.

— Fred Brooks